Having been involved in youth soccer coaching in America for the last 5 years, it alarms me to see the number of coaches and parents shouting and screaming at the young players. Even more worrying, though, is that this is mainly borne out of a strong desire for their players to win the game.
The emphasis on winning in youth soccer, indeed most youth sports, is starting at younger and younger ages. Such is the importance, players as young as 5 and 6 are having the results of games and importance of winning them drilled into them. Really though, it's the players themselves who suffer from this approoach. A friend of mine, who has a kid on a kindergarten recreation soccer team, recently told me that at the last game they had, one player saw 5 minutes on the field and another didn't get a single minute. At U-5 recreation soccer. The reason? "The other team are really good; they are top of the flight." Clearly the fact that they don't keep records doesn't discourage winning-obsessed coaches from keeping their own standings.
Unfortunately, one of the downsides of having a superbly run and organized youth sport such as soccer here in America is that statistics, standings and records are readily available. This has meant, even at young ages, a shift away from what the game should be about for youth players: improvement and enjoyment. Very few young soccer players remember the score an hour after a game, let alone the next day, so there is absolutely no need for coaches to scream at the kids if they make a mistake that caused the team to concede a goal. As coaches, we need to make sure kids develop as players and learn to understand and love the game. Without enjoyment, players will not continue playing!
Jim