As a coach, you may find your greatest challenge isn't managing your athletes, but working with their parents. Here are some tips that will improve your relationship with any Mom or Dad.

Meet with parents before the season starts

Let them know what you expect from them and their children, and share your coaching philosophy. Set a few ground rules, and ask them for questions and their concerns. Establishing a relationship now will make it easier to work with them during the season.

Don’t let problems fester

If you have a problem with a parent, or vice versa, discuss the issue in private as soon as possible and try to reach a resolution. Putting this off will make the problem worse, and may get other parents involved.

Treat all players the same

The trend to treat exceptional athletes differently from others starts at the earliest ages, and parents are well aware of this. Favoritism is a big concern for parents, so let them know that all kids will get the same amount of playing time and no one will get special treatment.

Get parents involved

From serving as assistant coaches to snack or carpool parent, parents want to be involved in their kid’s activities. Encouraging them to do so in a constructive way will make your job easier.

Stress positive reinforcement

Encourage parents to be positive and supportive of their children. Ask them not to yell at their child or referees during practices and games.

Manage expectations

Parents often think their child is a better player than he or she really is, and expect more from them as a result. Coaches can let parents know that such expectations put more pressure on their children, and encourage them to focus on praise rather than criticism.

Let parents know your time is valuable

Parents should treat youth sports practices and meets as any other appointment, and should get their kids there on time. Likewise, they should let you know if their child needs to miss a practice or game.